Who Is Alec Purves (aka Rocker). I am Gorean and a Leatherman. I enjoy mentoring and teaching others about a deeper, richer existence of Master/slave relationships. My philosophical characteristics are Gorean in nature; with special emphasis given to the Masculinity/femininity of each individual.
Story I am a separated father (since ’04),with three children who are all grown up and living on their own. “Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age.” ― Anaïs Nin I live Life to the fullest. , I am an open minded and adventurous gentleman. (Yes […]
Read More Dating Profile… You have a photo of you hunting or fishing; proving you are a provider on a dating site … You believe the only way to remain ‘true to yourself’ is to move to Alaska … You insist your amount of being Gorean is dependent on how many Gorean groups you join … That roleplaying on […]
Read More You Might Be a Gorean Redneck If…..There is a cost. You will lose friends. You will be misunderstood. You will be maligned. And you will count the cost. The Negatives I remember when I first came out to the local kink community. I was attending a couple of munches, enjoying the conversation and meeting some new people. Within a short amount […]
Read More Count The Cost of Being GoreanThroughout our lives, we continue to make choices that lead us in a direction of where and who we are today. It encompasses everything from our career choices, sexual partners, who we affiliate with, where we reside, and how we define ourselves. As a Leatherman, I share with others that Leather is a life long journey. […]
Read More The Leather JourneyThis is something that has been asked of me on many occasions. What are the differences between Leather and the BDSM pansexual communities? What are the differences between the Gay Leather communities and the Heterosexual Leather communities? There are major differences. Let me explain my own personal insights and experiences why these are so important […]
Read More Why Leather?What is Leather? Do a Google search, or ask a friend this question and invariably you will get the response that it’s origins come from the Gay community. Although this is partially true, it is not completely correct. Heterosexual Leather has been around for decades. It’s origins are very similar to the Gay Leather origins; […]
Read More Heterosexual LeatherI was sharing yesterday during a job interview about the importance of Family. During the job interview, the question was asked “Outside of work, what is important to you?” Anyone who knows me, knows this was an invitation to begin speaking about what I enjoy and believe. The following is a snapshot of what I […]
Read More My Chosen FamilyOver the years, I have been blessed to have been in the company with many beautiful women. It has been a wonderful time of wild, passionate sex, in depth conversation, and much needed companionship. Many of the relationships lasted for a season,; whether that was a couple of years, a summer fling, or sometimes for […]
Read More Why Structure And Rituals Are So Important To MeCan there be such a thing? I have always been an individual that does not follow the crowd. I have been raised from early childhood to be independent. To evaluate, decide and act on any matter based simply on what is most important and is best for me and those in my charge; not to […]
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